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Adoch's Thought Of the Day: Good Morning... I didn't even know where to begin, so I slept on it. It's unfortunate that the world these days is filled with so much negativity that when someone comes around with a kind and loving heart, we are quick to question their motives and intentions. We all do it to some degree, just some of us are more jaded than others. For example, we meet a nice man and we may think all he want it to play us or get "some", fellas you meet a nice female and you may think all she wants is my money or to use me, or you meet a new person and we may think, this person is too good to be true, so they are up to no good. We are trained by the media or society to think negative first. We then put up walls and a person has to prove themselves before we let them in. Not realizing this is what we call "playing games" and causes chain reaction. We end up putting people through unnecessary tests and trials, even when they have proved themselves. We may also compare them to the last person and unintentionally we end up hurting them or hurting our self, by the time we really realize who they really are. Usually at this point it to late. Once a loving heart gets hurt or tired, it hard for them to show the love as freely as they would have before. The damage is done, the seed has been planted. Have you ever thought how your own actions or reactions contribute to how others treat you? If we expect bad, we will get bad. If we expect good, we will receive good. Even if we don't, we have to challenge ourselves to see the good in every situation and take the learning lesson as a blessing in disguise. Some people are just loving enough to do good anyway, despite being hurt a million times. They realize people need more love and they look at every experience as a blessing, not only to others but most importantly to God. I am my "Brothers Keeper" and though I've been hurt many times and hurt others by my actions, I choose to walk in love, strive to grow daily and forgive others and most importantly myself. I choose to continue to believe everything happens for a reason. If someone is in my life for a reason, season or lifetime, then they are supposed to be there. Whether it be to teach me something or vise versa. I will love them for the individual that they are without any expectations of negativity. I'm not saying the world is a perfect place and everyone in it is good. I am saying I'm responsible for my own actions. If they do choose to intentionally hurt me, I know God has my back. 

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